Questions focused on seven hundred and forty

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4, no matter which tree holes sent a letter, do not use attachments, and do not endlessly always ask yourself what have your own. even sent to the open holes in the trees of advice, as long as the recent Soon a new home in a private talk phone. if no time had no desire to write, you can write to yushunshun@gmail.com, looking for family number. In order to avoid harassment, the phone will refuse to listen to any call without an appointment. thank you. < br> 1,1, more than 11 points last night, a distant students sent a message, asked me if I sleep? my reply did not sleep. Then she called and talked for one hour. that her heart was hard and good trouble, like a divorce. I asked her how she friends. She said she who (a unit and students) seem to have a woman on the outside, and now ignore her, beat her and often asked her for money, a little on the Family do not ask, do not bring children, and sometimes disrespectful of her parents, 2-3 points almost every night back home, now they are AA, and even more frightening is that students do, he told me to prostitutes to make money. < br> To be honest, I was angry how she is such a life, but also understand the plight of her heart, because I went through, and I too was such a thing to worry, but I do not know the situation is worse than her, or better? can I persuade her that if he can change, give him a chance (for children)! classmates say he can not be changed, he has been the case. So I said, if you can face, then to leave the bar, away from the good points of their own, life is short, live well, do not point to their kinship with the men working so hard. Soon, you think they are such a marriage is not the end?
The man do not say unpardonable sin, but at least not as a decent husband. Divorce is free, but unfortunately many women think that restoration of partial failure of a single proof of life, so they prefer to linger in a dying marriage, do not want to give yourself for a living law. That being so, it was willing to self-torture, it was willing to abuse people, they go well with it, this world is always in balance, there are tears of laughter, but we can not cry forever Biography That laughter has attracted people to compete diving. not good live, it would be abusive and even Suicide, who could not save you forever.
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2, 32 unmarried women, two men and hard choices are AB. A Phoenix man, get educated on their own and have good career prospects, but it looks a bit weak, and women got along well, but did not feel love. A men and women are willing to pay if they can with him, for female career great help. Women have not seen his family, learned that the groom has the burden, and the male is very homely, one must assume a people person. A man said his mother is very strong, and do not agree with the two exchanges have been reluctant male and women home.
B male undergraduate, good shape, women and love he feels, B men is now running the company, the future is unknown, but B is better family man, without the burden of the future. Women have seen his family, feel better. If women with him, it takes hard work hard for the future. woman hesitated, not knowing how to choose.
must choose a smooth B Male, because his family did not pay, but also because his Yue Delai each other to have feelings, he family did not oppose it. As for the marriage to work hard with him, as a couple, it should be. So I suggest you also choose a smooth B. Do not just look in front of material comfort, the Great Depression, there are still people who jump billionaires do, why should you care about A man now that money?
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3, 31 female, divorced single, daughter go to each other. I flash marriage, shortly after pregnancy, during pregnancy, beating incident, and later there twice, I mentioned divorce. divorce year, we did not remarry. considering her young age, I often see her. ex-husband recently remarried meaning. tell the truth, her ex-husband who has many advantages, but it is violent. estimates and he grew up in family-related violence. He machismo that women are the days, the man is to.
macho men should be considered is the day, women are in it, day to drop down, a woman must be followed, So he threw your fist, you have to then, his doctrine is probably the case. want to remarry no problem, but make it clear to him: before you start to leave again, and there is no third time back to grass to eat.
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4, my own better conditions, a good family, stable job, preferred appearance and pleasant personality. because you want to pursue the perfect emotional and marriage, and divorce. I do not believe in money, up against tremendous pressure and poor with civil servants. He is also good in all aspects, the only place where less is more serious, is particularly suspicious. has a serious impact on our lives: a male colleagues very common message, a common greeting male students, in fact, received since marriage In three of these messages (aware of his state of mind, I usually pay attention to his words and deeds are), the result which has become his heart, the source of quarrels and even manhandled. We usually separated in two places, only a week together, all the possible happened, he can imagine it. I'm so tired, past and patience, and his talk, talking, are old problems, good downtown, making for a good, pure effort haggard.
you find this men are more abnormal, super-possessive, suspicious overweight, so you and his marriage, super hard until old age. your best to be prepared, when he so much noise is not a decent, happy to give up his neatly. or you will ah really dark days. Even the basic respect and trust is not for you, he can give you what?
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5, I am 26, divorced without children, because the simple first marriage, even if the family does not agree He also, and combined,Bailey UGG boots, then it is precisely because of family reasons against divorce. divorced three years, people like to talk about the past three years failed, interesting people to me I did not feel. small town to find the object is limited, I often reflect on their own is not no self-knowledge, requires too much? another one, I was in town, people who divorce are Discrimination, will initially did not want to before, only decisive divorce, others always said that I can look beautiful, some someone else, and it departs from that marriage. I was very passive, I have a steady job, to go out is not realistic, do not divorce, a woman must be vulnerable to it? friends said, even if I find a divorce under the first home ah that I am stupid. I do not want Beauty is but I'm not smart, not any scheming, not into the business, stock market 70% of their own savings deficit, and did not own a house, endure for three years, once the Spring Festival, family members have come the New Year, I am somewhat depressed, my life is not so dark anymore?
your life can not always be so depressed, you depend on your good side: you only 26, still young; you Divorced without children, there is no drag problem; you have a stable job, financially-secure, do not rely on anyone, but also business as usual life; you look pretty good even if the stock market lost money hh, but this loss did not make your debt This is fortunate. so I thought, what are you sick to continue and so is your man again now.
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6, he and I are both 79 years, married for 2 years, one-year-old child, I am full time with children, now by his family. married in the first year he had an affair, only half a year struggle to separate this point I no longer believe him. but look at his attitude seems completely Huijiu, and I never communicate with me anyway He felt the two worlds. man he has some shortcomings, the only advantage is to spend money very generous to us, almost how much I want to, he gave, indifferent to everything else for you. This be love it? Actually, I hate him, but now can not work have to rely on him, and I feel very contradictory. and his noisy bar, their own lack of confidence; to please him, he is more presumptuous attitude. I wore nausea, such a marriage how can I maintenance?
at home boil for one year to send the kids 2 years old kindergarten, you get away from work. women can only have economic status, in order to secure the advancement of the family. He probably will not for that time affair You have a heart at the end, be sure to separate as soon as possible, lest he fall in love next time, the hot-headed to leave you Niangliang when that time if you no income, that'll be terrible. woman's future happiness, must not be dependent on man. He is generous of you to spend money, owed much he did not want to combine the first two women, if so, enough to spend his money, and you Nianglia no money spent.
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7, a woman of 24, due to urgent family spent their savings, and owed more than ten million. A woman is a man of true love 24 years old who still rely on family support, and the men also appeared at this time A family situation, very difficult, and A a stepmother. male and female differences in the growth environment and education major, talked of doing things is not a feeling level, summary, male A woman is very unhappy parents. Another woman refused to give up chasing male B, home conditions are good, and female literacy similar, but women did not feel for him. If A marriage with the male and female parents would be furious, but also continue to lend money to her organization of work, and marriage to pay a lot, a heavy burden. If you choose to male B, would not to spend money to run the work, parents affordable. but women want to dream of their favorite people together, but unfortunately next to the house carrying her psychological decompression, with M B exposure, but the face of senseless men B, She is guilty of nausea, I do not know Shashi Hou, may raise feelings. the face of parents anxious heart, she forced his teeth and male B together. pain she go from here?
even looking for men and A do not fly, but also with Buzhuo non-forced their male B together with you? we can not but rely on the work of a man at home to help, the parents do not spend money on? you are 24, and for better or worse find a place worked on, and then a little bit of effort, a little diversion, and slowly change their environment? can not rely on anything other arrangements, the employer for you if you have to conquer the world, then you sacrifice his love or preferences, but also as it should be, fair exchange chanting.
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8, I'm 24, life bifurcation mouth, many people may have a loss like me too, after all, you have gone through here. For we are still unfamiliar with the people around them do not know. childhood is the standard of health, physical fitness, has been to work than most people, I might look something big, like sports, a strong point. ascendant or colleagues have recently introduced her boyfriend to me, but people are not willing. Fine asked the parties to know, people think I am too strong a Now men like innocent girl. To this end I tried to analyze myself heavy meat bones than others, immeasurably. I was not such a nice ring there, maybe my question is an idiot, but this is all cause of the incident. can you say turnip greens all have love, I am not the mass of girls, 173 high, 73 kg, hh asked why and was hit 2 times, self-esteem to burst. eat hot peppers grown because of it .
173 girls, if the models do, but also conditions it is not enough, so you is not high, but your weight is undesirable current popular ah. you want to change the status quo was picking, it would severely heart, from now on .173 from the bite of high weight children, 63 kilograms,UGGs, looks to slim. Since men like tall, slender woman, let's for themselves and for the future, lose 20 pounds mm is not impossible, you say you fit and strong is meat Cishi, then there can be the basis for reduction.
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9, and he was in high school together, now more than two years. before he told me well, know that we are all family together , and always felt we should have a lifetime. but now do not know why, I told him more and more dissatisfied. as long as he and others play together, and I do not happy, and what he likes to play cards (I hate). I am very concerned about ex-girlfriend also contacted him and, in particular, his first girlfriend, and he said to me the sum of his and her no, but I just do not believe it. what he says I do not like to believe, always suspicious, and as long as he not on my side, I very reassuring.
I'm not very good temper, can not stand the wronged, and he wanted to change me, and I also want to change him, but we are constrained by others who do not want to. I always want to Maybe he told me a little better, one day I will really want to do something to change, but I still do not want to do that first and giving. he went out two months earlier, did not call me to send the next message. I complained that he did not call me, and he complained that I did not take the initiative to call him, and I think we kind of do not take the initiative to pay, want to do something before other people. I'm with him When I was very happy, very satisfied. now do not know this feeling should or should not continue, or my own psychological problems. I just want to have a feeling secure in a stable.
your feelings can not stable: He and good on you in high school, he had the hh ex-girlfriend and first love of a smooth if you do not misunderstand, he and you are very young, very young, he went so far as to love a few times, he be passionate enough. and sentimental man is hard to call a woman at ease. you now have only been out of the school gates, up to early 20s, why do trees in a long Komatsu dream? your future experience with the open and field of vision increases, so you will understand his tie is put in a man who died, is the behavior of Shade can not be silly. Some people, destined to become a bottom of the old love, he and you, you may also will not happen to think of a happy past it.
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10, points with her boyfriend, and that he does not love me anymore. seriously from the beginning is not love, at least not enough love. I think I love He loves me more than he. can not stand the pressure, I broke on the first mention. in seven months out with him, he is getting cold towards me, so I often feel dispensable, not me, he was not affected, he admitted this, so I feel I should give up hope, so why drag others dragged themselves. I know he is a friend, at the beginning and I am rather active, because I feel like a person, in relation to his idea to him. but he did not think I'm Jin-holding. From the beginning I was in this love in a passive position, desperate to pay in exchange for their return, they found more pay, herself, the more worthless. I think he and my contacts, because he was not in love a long time, want to change your own status, just meet me, together.
pain after breaking up with me , so that friends call him, he started out with me does not recognize things, and later at a friend's questioning, reluctantly admitted that because he and I are friends, and always feel a little something. he did not specifically say there anything, but I understand what he means is embarrassing, not tell people that the fear of colleagues and friends laughed at him. deeper reason is that he thinks I not good enough, have this idea. to break up is two months today, I admit I have not break out of the pain, but I am confident that people find true love.
girl ah, you proved that a smooth three-point has been stressed that: die first, appalled by a woman. Well, they need to be education. Thank you for writing this letter, a cis believe you can find people who really love you, because you wake up. a woman waking,UGG shoes, to know and what people with the right to can be ordered from the comfort near.
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11, her boyfriend always act nice, and he female students, as well as the sister of the students identified during the total to call him to talk, chat with some of his ambiguous QQ, I get angry I want to give up, he determined not to let go, I feel a shadow, do not want to believe him, I give up or give him a chance? New Year would have to go look at his house (he had been to my house), he said that cold is not convenient , the last to know his ex-girlfriend called to his house to go to the New Year with his parents that he was afraid I would go to she is just too, met me, for fear the girl naughty, did not face his family, so let me go. I have not let go let go?
he still loves ex-girlfriend more, or will not do so prepare to meet the ex-girlfriend's drive to. points it girl, we do not ask him pretty rich, but at least make sure he mind when the only time we get it?
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12, home to introduced objects, the other side also satisfied that he stands a little bit so I can not accept. I 164CM, he has not I'm high. In fact, I The height requirement for male is not high, at least 170 bar, or go out after, and even can not wear high heels. You do what views?
164 women, with 174-184 of the men are good-looking appearance, take on . But if there is a feeling some of his short it does not matter, not 174, at least we'll have nearly as high, right? not too short, otherwise people will say what you find he is a hidden agenda. you this is different from feelings in daily life, regardless of height can be fat, thin, blind, or people about to phase conditions, especially the mule is Madura out yo, You will not be the principle that no thing.
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13, female 83 years people, and university students A (84 years) love to go to school during his graduation before the break. After graduation three years, meet again in October 2007, are not appropriate objects, but also come together, now began to talk of marriage. Before the woman said the man buy a house renovation, can now refer to the house, his mother suddenly my mother called to say his family in rural areas, no money, down payment have to mutual sharing. woman unhappy, just starting negotiations, has not formally meet conversation, the man suddenly send text messages saying tough family by her boss. breakups because he had these defects of character. I am now in a dilemma, you also need to save this feeling? save after that to buy a house by my house, because he more than a thousand per month income, simply can not afford the mortgage, think about it, I really unwilling. also feel sad, because that conflict, and he did so unsympathetic, a text message seems to be the end of it all. Shun Shun sister, I still need to go back to it?
Oh, never turning back, this man, this home, accounting for the woman bent low, and refused to bow in life, is simply not sensible to school, now that, after the married is contradictions , or do not mess with his family now.
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14, I am your male fans of Henan, the issue would like to seek your views on the existing .07 raise in my unit building in October, down thirty thousand, according to the progress of works then be submitted to twenty thousand, when we only have more than forty thousand funds, my wife and I discussed, and finally she agreed to go back one. Her view is that rebate funds would prefer not to buy a house, and the remaining twenty thousand by two relatives are now just also finished off, but also pay to the house to the main body finished in May, but our funds can be shrunk to more than ten thousand. I want to return the funds, less borrow enough, do not want to trouble relatives, and because of the economic crisis, a little less than to see improvement. can not she have to take all, dreaming the fund can be jumped back. both of us were salaried rental housing, there is a half-year-old boy entrusted to look after her parents house, I would like to house down, put them all over to give children a full house. you say the idea of us who is right? she also like to see your blog, that will listen to you.
your wife and watch a smooth blog. our ancestors knew, the house of gold is real estate, money also first set the house of gold, and the fund is the investment trading, and stocks could see it as the risk of trading intangible, in any case can not cover loss of funds away and relatives to borrow money thing. relatives money is not the sky fall, think about people who lend money to your mood: If you end Fund, compensation, mortgage a lot, when relatives of the money to pay off? Do Well such a respect for the feelings of others. Moreover, there is no fund, but reach out for help, this does not mean you borrow money from gambling, relatives can be comfortable you know my heart? usually takes several years of economic crisis to ease, hard to say how much you have left that fund next year . we just do not greedy, they will not loose money in business too.
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15, long time I wanted to write to you, you can pick up a pen and did not know where to start each time. I speak as concisely as possible. Female 35, married with children. husband first started courting me very nice to me for marriage but also gave up a lot. He is very busy with work, good career, but did not take into account the time me and my children. We said a few sentences every day so, a serious lack of communication, life without anger, even ml do not want to. but he was very generous to spend money at home, if you want to live comfortably, so can not go on not even look at me stranger days are good. end it had years to accept defeat, there are children; to it, the heart was depressed, tired. Do I know enough to do so? But I think the hard work to live well, life is not operating well and with what significance? Is marriage is join as a partner to live, lower cost of living on it? I think between us, not sure where, but can not talk to him, he felt nothing good I am. depressed to give him points in the ~
psychological burden, let him know that you need more than just money. If the day really well, have the ability to buy a house, then to buy a suite, and he separated for some time, let him experience the cold stove under the pot of cold, no wife babe of the day, he You might be able to realize the importance of appropriate adjustments to his attitude, to your relationship into something new and warmth. you and him apart, but also new understanding of his value. couple days so straightforward and is a lot of people will be called despair, after all, a little spark of life should be a little bit, let us understand each other: it is impossible to leave each other.
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16, female married for two years, and her husband are 30 years old, is now 7 months pregnant. I in sales, he did technology, was recognized at fellow students. It is said that he liked my optimistic, cheerful, I like his effort motivated reserved. Chuxiang Shi car when I have a room, his monthly salary of two thousand five, eating out all I pay. the beginning of his relatively low self-esteem, I am a materialistic person indifferent, always very hard to take care of his emotions, always giving him encouragement. through his own efforts, he is now 1 million a month salary, because his family was poor, poor afraid, and he usually is very frugal, like the charge of money, and now I give him income. a long time and found that people do not understand his ways of the world, talking red, do not know think twice, to my colleagues and so were his friends, usual argument he never let me, and verbal abuse, assault, after the attitude of sincere but mistaken. I do not quarrel on the line, but relatively cheap. pregnant, more confused than before, and felt with him after Life lost a lot of color. how can I do?
was miser, the others are mean to their own, such as a cis; also been miser, stingy to others only on the connivance of his own yet, such as that who. He seemingly also belongs to the former, at least he's not very hateful miser. If you can not adapt, then discuss with him: you control your money, my money, I was in charge, I do not spend your money, you watch your money This can always be right? After all, saving money but also to better enjoy, not to help banks survive. But you heard it estimated miser man you want to control their own money, and you can immediately alienated. For some men and words, the woman is his, his is his. Therefore, in order to unpredictable variables in the future, you have to get back their money.
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17, male 30, female superior, single rooms were good temper, but it seems life is monotonous. Everyone says he critical of women do not see. they work with pleasure, there are rumors that the company from a male into the female interested. recent long-term travel to the same city, lived an apartment (the company rent). male cook wipe, consequently dry, every twelve weeks to run very far away to buy specially favorite women, men and women began to have feelings. slapstick when the male and female hair pro, women did not refuse. men who look for opportunities to test the women of appearance in the last (we call beauty), graduated from good schools, income peers to be quite high, save the hundreds of thousands of current, generally accepted good character, many suitors. Women and the University has been single after her boyfriend broke up , parents want women to find a good man, women do not want to again and again, decided to settle down this year in any case the feeling.
women liked men, and the number of women he was a good economic conditions among the best, a decent number of his economic for women the best. because of work do not want people gossip, if the men have feelings of Jurchen and women ready to change jobs, if not, then settle down for others. I ask him this Suansha Shun Shun sister mean? how can I do? there , recently took stock account man say forget it, Re-run too much trouble, to the women took more than ten million, the female to help buy a stock, that placed long-term investment, women should or should not write a receipt?
this Or your boss a clear meaning, or which program you are willing to name more than ten million gold. You can talk with him thoroughly, emphasizing such points: one, you like him; Second,cheap UGG boots, you do not accept pre-marital cohabitation He If you want to make love to you to get married; three, if he wants to marry you, you are ready to quit, to avoid the trouble of a flat couple; four, no matter how you and the development of his business, his money paid for shares you not Tanzhan, if he just wants to be your friends and colleagues, which gives him fill your IOUs; five, and you want him to determine the relationship as soon as possible, otherwise you can not wait to elect another marriage was. VI , you are not forced to marry him, but now faces the pursuit of other men, trying to straighten out his relationship to avoid the ambiguous and vacillating.
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18, female 24, and A the same age, seven met him months ago, at first sight, love half months after the ML, not living together. We temper like, are urgent. his family met him, not satisfied, let me point. He was very nice to me, but he is very taboo things in the past never said to me, and asked not say. Last night a female colleague drink unit, called him to pick up, I was, he did not go, but because of pull-out before me, he and several of the older sister of 30 units the good thing. I can not take love, cried one night, and painful. love him. He said it was before, but now focus only on co-workers, after me, I'm sorry I do not. But I'm sick, emotional difficult to accept, not points, contradiction.
B two years ago was introduced to the, and women the same age, smart part, good character, good prospects. like and he is good, no need to consider all aspects, I told him the family hope. He before I may, but before the misunderstanding has not contacted us, references that as long as want good, there is hope. and her boyfriend have been disappointed after last night s, B he is like My lifesaver, to grasp, want to get married, settle down. Will Shun Shun sister, should, and A points, and to find B? A state of the economy very well, no room, such as together with him for the room to .
I have been engaged in the old woman, ate big sister's little boy of soft rice, never good. because he is an opportunist at least, rely on a prostitute in exchange for benefits, this is not the behavior of the Tate's husband, shameful also minor, the key is to prove that he can not hack it. But even if divided, A M, B M do not necessarily want you to, ah, do not listen to random stamp introducer drums, they speak off the mark. At present, and does not and A M points, with you, but do not take the initiative to go to B Male, B men really want to have in mind you, he will always haunt you down, and not because of some misunderstanding on the do not contact you, the more love you man, more they want to resolve your his misunderstanding. In addition, the men chasing women, of women are good, so we do not emphasize what a man of good, > 19, 3 years with my boyfriend, wanted to break from the first day, but never points out, male stalker. I'm soft-hearted, can not stand this. His biggest fault is not honest, open mouth is a lie. almost not a word of truth. ask him a question, does not always matter-of-answer, not ask, that is irrelevant to the tear. I sometimes persistent, has been asked, but not directly answer. So I told him not method of communication. of course I can, and with him for so long, or because he was everything I care about, life is also very good to me. I have a bad temper, likes to hit. because I neglected in my home since childhood, No one shows concerned about me. mom always called me, looking down on me that I stupid, useless. but I students, the sister of my college dormitory say I am clever, I still debate on the master. perhaps grew up in the shadow of her mother , my friends are good in general, but I love the people I really care about the people, for the most realistic.
I talk to him, say a few words on the fire, does not make sense. He also wants to I got married, I did not intend to marry him. His family was very poor in the countryside, there are two sister, and even the house at all. Every time I break up with him, because I can not stand against him concerned, I am most missing this. but I can not communicate with any connection with him. I really do not know how to do a good job.
girl ah, he is probably what your fate in the person. You dare anyone? others, you play it? his endurance so powerful, you are half past one would not run. But you have to understand that even if you are never too poor his family, to marry him, and he is not able to continue in the marriage of you. Some men are very able to Fuxia Shen section, as long as they want, you call him when grandson, he could not when my grandfather. but once that happened, it is estimated to emancipated slaves to others sing, then you waiting for him to revenge it. Fortunately you did not intend to marry him, it is estimated to avoid retaliation. Of course, the world is indeed such a person is born for us, specifically: When people are not in urine us, they also take When we treasure. burglary last generation thought it was because we buried him, still feeling his life to the. but, in principle, or to adhere to: not the man with the earlier kick, or affect the other men come to you ah.
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20, M 34, handsome, boyish. F 36, beautiful and a little fat after giving birth. There is a 3-year-old woman. We are more simple, married 8 years, love has been good, both income equivalent to the average annual 20-30 million, do not worry about money, sex also harmonious. The only problem is that some of my character flaws, not like children, not like others to share our feelings. can live without his wife insisted the child is not complete. Although I have repeatedly stressed before and after marriage do not want children, but under the pressure of the final in all respects, by the end of 2005 had a girl.
3 years, I've tried various ways to adapt to the role of the father. including family and friends. ..